The Big Little Podcast

Episode 20 – Age Play and Polyamory

Posted on: July 3, 2011

Episode 20 – Age Play and Polyamory

Big Little Podcast Episode 20

Members of two age playing poly families talk about polyamory, sharing their experiences and explaining how age play plays a part. This is also our first show with a live, chat-room audience.

Show Notes

  • Polyamory: poly=many, amory=love, many loves. As described by our guests, ethical non-monogamy.
  • OKCupid: an online dating/friendship profile site
  • Minx’s Polyamory Weekly podcast – A long-running polyamory focused, kink-friendly podcast
  • Polyamory & google calendar – info on sharing google calendars
  • Frubble (silly word for compersion): happiness that you feel about your partner being happy about something that has nothing to do with you
  • Wibble: antonym of frubble, a jealousy feeling about your partner’s happiness with someone else
  • Poly LivingMicah’s Fearless Press column about polyamory where you can find the column mentioned, ‘Living a “Normal” Life
  • Metamour – the partner of your partner, a “love(r)-in-law”
  • Vee – a poly group with three partners, where the center person, or the “pivot,” has two partners who aren’t partners of each other
  • Triad (triangle) – a poly group with three partners, who each have a relationship with the other two
  • Franklin Veaux’s Glossary of Polyamory Terms – An extensive glossary of terms used in talking about polyamory (some are also used in swinging and BDSM). His site also contains an excellent Polyamory FAQ and other educational articles.
  • Power Exchange Books Resource Series: Age Play – a collection of article by age players on a range of topics, featuring an article by Spacey titled “Gourmet Age Play”, about how age play can combine with a variety of kinks as an intensifier. You can read it on Fetlife, too.
  • HeyTell app : voice text messages application (walk-talkie or push-to-talk style)
  • The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy – a book about ethical non-monogamy, relationships and sex. Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy are also the authors of a few other kink/BDSM nonfiction books, such as The New Bottoming Book and The New Topping Book.
  • Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino – a book featuring interviews with people in many different relationship styles, practical advice and tips.
  • The Crucible – BDSM/Kink club in Washington, DC

7 Responses to "Episode 20 – Age Play and Polyamory"

Well I have to say I love hearing your podcast!! However doing them live dose not seam right use a free program like audacity to edit them and steaming needs to be fixed use like shoutcast

But I’m in no way saying I don’t down right LOVE to see new ones !!!
Just giving pointers!

Hi spacey!!! ( I thinks that’s how u spell it)

Hi Jeff,

Thanks for the compliment about the show.

To edit them I actually use GarageBand on my Mac. Audacity is nice, but seems like it crashes more frequently for me on longer editing jobs.

As I’ve posted on FetLife and in the chat channel we’ve been using, the live stream is a new experiment for us. The tool that I bought for that is Nicecast. We learned last night that the default configuration maxes out at 8 streams. I can probably up that, but I’m sure there’s a practical limit since ultimately people are connecting to stream via my residential cable connection and the upstream bandwidth is considerable less than down.

One thing it does allow us to do is stream to another server, which I think will then stream the show. There are two options provided by the program Live365 and Shoutcast. I know Live365 has a significant cost for both broadcasters and listeners. It seems impractical for our needs right now as a free podcast. I’ll have to research the requirements of Shoutcast. We also have to consider whether or not the terms of service allow an adult broadcast from their servers.

Hopefully we’ll learn a little more and get a little better with each show. Hey we’ve been doing a weekly show for 5 months now and we’re still here. I’m pretty proud of that.

Thanks again and
spacey – Adopted by Lady Mae

How do I check out that chat room?

Hi Dolly!

The chat room (channel) is #d-diaper on the network If you already have an IRC client on your computer, just use that to connect.
If you are new to IRC or are not sure what any of that means at all, the easiest way is to go to this link: In the field that says channel, type #d-diaper .

Enjoy! Hope you can chat during our next live stream.

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this was a great and inspiring episode (then again, aren’t they all?)
My Daddy/Hubby and I have just started expanding our family by adding our terrific, wondermous, lovely darling girlfriend who is my sister and his lil girl.
she has a little boy (chronokid) and I referenced her to the parenting show and when i heard this i just got a warm fuzzy feeling hearing about all the love your poly families have for each other.
its inspiring, thank you

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