Big Little Podcast Episode 32

It’s another in our series of interviews with real age players. Lil Jennie hosts the Indiana Hoosier High Chair Munch, writes age play fiction, and maintains a LilJennie.com.

Show Notes

• Coming Soon.

Big Little Podcast Episode 31

You heard and loved the girl show, now it’s time for the boys to play. Join our panel as we discuss the realities and misconceptions of being a male-identified age player.

Thanks again to our boy-riffic panelists for sharing of themselves and lending us their perspective. The man-folk in this panel were: Suki, Gwydion, Justin, RS, Matty, James, and Benny. (Also Frankie who unfortunately lost his connection just after the show started). Plus we have even more great call-in moments and comments from the chat room folks during the recording.

Show Notes

• Coming Soon.

It’s not an experiment anymore, it’s A Little Something Naughty. Naughty because it features a narrator reading a piece of age play erotica. It’s important to note that there is sexual content ahead and those triggered or offended by such things should skip these segments. We will still be doing plenty of our regular shows and events updates.

Today’s story involves a bit of humiliation and with one of our favorite friends of the podcast in mind. For her own protection she, Valentalae, will remain nameless. After all, if you knew this was about her, you might be prone to teasing her.

A Little Something Naughty 4 – Laughing With

Big Little Podcast Episode 30

On this episode we go the opposite direction of our large panel shows and focus on the age play experience of one person. Initially Nayland is a reluctant age player. Join us as he shares the story of how he came to age play and how he uses his creativity to break out of traditional age play roles. Nayland has important thoughts to share with those who take on the big roles as well as those that like to play with them.

Show Notes

• Coming Soon.

Big Little Podcast Episode 29

Maya, Justin, and your podcast hosts answer your emails, voicemails, and a call in.

Show Notes

• Coming Soon.

Big Little Podcast Episode 28

So these two jews, a christian, a muslim, a taoist, a solitary eclectic gnostic deist pagan, and an atheist all walk into a podcast… Join us as we talk with folks from a wide variety of faith walks about how religion and age play. We discuss how they their religious life and kink/age play interests, what their religious cannon has to say about kink and age play, and even learn how faith and age play inform each other in the lives of some of our guests.

Thanks again to our terrific panelists for being open and willing to talk about religion in their lives. These fine folks were Charlie, Peanut, Sysiphe, Elspeth, and Pene. Plus we great call-in moments and comments from the chat room folks during the recording.

Show Notes

• Coming Soon.

Big Little Podcast Episode 27

It requires effort and dedication, but for some age players adult breastfeeding creates an intimate experience unlike any other. Join us as we talk about the process and the connection created by this fascinating interaction.

Our guests Starshine and Baby Kevin help us milk this topic for all it’s worth.

Show Notes

• Coming Soon.

Big Little Podcast Episode 26

For many age play is light and fun. It’s a chance to return to playfulness and innocence. For our guests, however, not so much. Discover how some people use age play while frolicking along the edges of sex and fear.

Our very scary panelists were LilLaurel, Sara Noel, and Benny with help and comments from our chat room audience.

Show Notes

• Tara McPherson – NYC-based artist who is known for her dark imagery
• SSC, Safe, Sane and Consensual and RACK, Risk Aware Consensual Kink  are two philosophies about play safety and risk that are espoused by many in the BDSM/fetish/kink community

Big Little Podcast Episode 25

Get the scoop on everything from attending to running a multi-day age play event from the folks that have been there at: Camp Crucible, CAPCon, The Floating World, Frolicon, FetFest, and more. Learn about what it’s like to attend, how you can help make events like these better, and what it takes to put these together.

Our very fine panelists were Andrea, RuleOfThree, and BristishLuckyPaul. Also a call-in cameo from Psyche.

Show Notes

• The Floating World: a large educational/social hotel BDSM event in New Jersey, with ageplay activities
• Camp Crucible: a week-long camping event with its own Kidz Kamp track
• Black Rose: a BDSM focused hotel event with classes, dungeons and special events such as a formal dinner
• Frolicon: an “alternative” hotel convention with  large Kink and Sexuality tracks (as well as others), and ageplay events.
• Madtown KinkFest: hotel Kink/BDSM educational/social event in Wisconsin
• CAPCon: an ageplay-focused hotel convention, run by the Chicago Age Players
• FetFest: a new camping BDSM/Kink event featuring “Villages” of different interests (such as Ageplay, Polyamory, Female Domination, Queer, Rope, TNG and many others).
• There will be a special Village at FetFest just for age players! Click here to register for FetFest through the Ageplay Village. Use code “littles” to save 10%!  If you’d like to help Mako plan activities for the Ageplay village, visit the FetLife group for the Village. There’s a little more info about the Village here, too.
• If you’d like to volunteer at FetFest, click here for the volunteer application!
• Twisted Tryst – BDSM camp experience Sept 15 – 18th in Wisconsin.
• The BabyFur Public Behavior Guidelines: Some guidelines for Babyfur behavior (also applicable to many ABs) – geared to events at hotels/in public places.

Un-Warning: This segment DOES NOT contain explicit sexual content.

In this edition we feature our first piece of fiction by another author. It’s a wonderfully sweet work that shows a facet of age play that many never consider. Story by Valentalae and read by Mako Allen.

Enjoy.

A Little Something Sweet 3 – Lean on Me

Big Little Podcast Episode 24

Join your hosts and another panel of amazing guests as we talk about the joys and struggles for transgendered people who are also age players. One of our longer episodes, it’s a really deep and meaty show that’s about so much more than the topic suggests.

Our excellent panelists were Thymine, lissie, Aiden Fyre, Lee Harrington, Benny, and Riley Kilo.

Show Notes

Awesome show notes provided by Valentalae (the Encyclopedia Podcastica)

• Eroticawakening.com and
• Lee Harrington’s episode about age play
• PassionAndSoul
• The Toybag Guide to Age Play - http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1890159735/ref=as_…?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1890159735&linkCode=as2&tag=biglitpod-20]
• Wikipedia’s big list of pronouns Or was this the one Aiden meant?
• The Kathoey
• Seven different gender representations listed in the Talmud
• Dark Odyssey
• Transcaping.com (But when I checked the link it was just Riley’s blog…)
• Judgmentfreehealthcareproviders.com
• Benny’s Etsy
• Rileykilo.com (Wait, how many blogs does she have again?) lol
• The Thai Adult Baby Nursery
• Let’s Get SRS
• Aidenfyre.com
• Benny’s blog, Science Based Sex

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 7/28/2011

Show Notes:

Join us for the following upcoming live recording sessions:

Sunday, July 31st, 4:00 PM, Eastern
Nursing & Lactation (http://fetlife.com/events/63511)

Tuesday, August 2nd, 7:30 PM, Eastern
Ageplay Events & Campouts (http://fetlife.com/events/63513)

Upcoming Munches:

Saturday, July 30^th

• Madison Littles Munch – Madison, WI
• Northeast PA Littles – Dickinson City, PA

Monday, August 1^st

• Boston Littles Munch – Cambridge, MA
• LittleSpace Sacramento – Roseville, CA

Saturday, August 13^th

• D.C. Littles Munch – Bethesda, MD
• Mobile Littles Munch – Mobile, AL
• Ohio Age Play Munch – Columbus, OH

Tuesday, August 16^th

• Vancouver Ageplayers Munch – Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada

Wednesday, August 17^th

• San Francisco Littles Munch – San Francisco, CA

Saturday, August 20^th

• Atlanta Littles Munch – Atlanta, GA (Your podcast hosts in one place at the same time.)
• Austin Littles Munch – Austin, TX
• Indiana Hoosier Highchair – Bloomington, IN

Sunday, August 21^st

• Boston Littles Munch – Cambridge, MA

Saturday, August 27^th

• North Carolina Littles Munch – Greensboro, NC

Find out about all of these munches by visiting http://LittlesMunch.com

Other events for littles:

• The Floating World kink convention will be hosting a number of age play activities – Edison, NJ, July 29^th through the 31^st. www.thefloatingworld.org
• Alberta Canada Adult Baby Camp Out – August 18^th – 23^rd www.calgaryabdlmeetup.com
• FetFest – A kinky camping event where mako is helping to organize the age play village. September 2^nd – 5^th as a summer camp in Maryland. FetFest.com

Big Little Podcast Episode 23

Learn a little bit about what some folks call Age Play Mecca and why. Join your hosts spacey and mako as well as guests Armand and Loki as we talk about our favorite vacation spot, Walt Disney World.

Yet again special thanks go to the #d-diaper IRC chat room on rizon.net and all the great folks that called in and listened live.

Show Notes

• The Unofficial Guide to Disney World - guide with hotel and restaurant reviews, insider tips, reader comments and lots more.
• Touringplans.com - online guide and info about when to go to the parks and what attractions to visit at what times. Also available is a mobile site for Blackberry and Palm, as well as apps for Android and iPhones, called “Lines.”
• Mobile Magic Application – official Disney app for Android phones on Verizon only. There is also a mobile site available at m.disneyworld.com
• Monorail Co-Pilot Card example
• Magic Kingdom Railway - makes 3 stops at different parts of the Magic Kingdom. Fun for kids of all ages and a great way to see the whole park!
• Mickey’s Not So Scary Halloween Party – a good time of year to wear costumes in the park and a fun way to celebrate the Halloween season (runs last 3 weeks of October)
• Whispering Canyon Cafe - a sit-down restaurant in the Wilderness Lodge resort (Magic Kingdom area), always a hooping and hollering good time.
• 50s Primetime Cafe in Disney Hollywood Studios park – make sure to finish your vegetables!
• Le Cellier – steakhouse in Canada pavillion in World Showcase of Epcot
• Glow Cube - a nifty souvenir that you can have in many beverages at WDW and buy in several of the gift shops. It’s a clear cube with LEDs inside and can blink or rotate between colors. Link is a picture and example of one cocktail that includes a glow cube for you to keep.
• Journey Into Imagination with Figment  (in Future World in Epcot)
• Monsters, Inc Laugh Floor (Tomorrowland area in Magic Kingdom) – stand-up comedy show with the monsters, you can text in a joke
• Stitch’s Great Escape (Tomorrowland) – sit-down stationary ride featuring Stitch/Experiment 626 from Lilo & Stitch
• Kim Possible Team Possible Adventure - Interactive save-the-world adventure in many of the World Showcases in Epcot
• Muppet Vision 3-D - a Muppets-themed show/ride in Disney Hollywood Studios park.
• Fast pass system – for all ticketed guests, a fantastic way to reduce wait times for popular attractions
• Here is a list of all the Family Restrooms (also called companion-assisted restroom) where it is appropriate to do a diaper change.
• Cirque du Soleil’s La Nouba show – at Downtown Disney
• Rodeway Inn – an inexpensive off-property motel off Hwy 192 in Kissimmee. Room rates $26-41 a night.
• The Woodshed – A playspace/dungeon in Orlando
• A few ways to save money at Disney:  1) get a season/annual pass, 2) choose a room with a kitchen(ette) and cook or bring some of your own meals,  3) bring snacks and drinks into the parks, 4) attend during times of year when room rates are lower, 5) take advantage of free activities like resort hopping and Downtown Disney, 6) buy a Refillable mug for use at your resort, 7) stay at Fort Wilderness campground with your tent or RV.
• There are TONS more money-saving tips out there on the web. Those and lots more info can be found at the major Disney fan sites, some of which are All Ears, Disney Information Station (DIS),  MouseSavers, WDW Magic, The Mouse For Less, Laughing Place.
• Keep your eyes peeled for info on the Big Little Podcast Fetlife group, or Twitter, about a Big Little Podcast meetup at Downtown Disney in the beginning of October 2011, when Mako and Spacey will be in town for the Epcot Wine and Dine Half Marathon run.

Big Little Podcast Episode 22

On this episode we spend some time catching up. We talk a bit about the state of the show after 21 episodes, address some listener mail, and take our first ever live calls.

Again special thanks go to the #d-diaper IRC chat room on rizon.net and all the great folks that called in and listened live.

Show Notes

• Sneak peek at some upcoming shows:  ageplay and religion; lactation; Disney for ageplayers, dark ageplay, transgender ageplay
• Dan Savage’s advice column is called Savage Love. Now also a book and podcast.
• DTMFA: Dump the motherfucker already  - a catchphrase of Dan Savage
• Introspection (self-reflection): thinking, reasoning and examining one’s own thoughts and feelings
• Littlesmunch.com – a place to find munches for ageplayers in your area
• Algolagnia: deriving sexual pleasure and stimulation from pain or painful sensations
• Exposure therapy – a treatment technique of steadily increasing exposure to, or small steps towards something that is causing a problem for you (like shyness, or other fears), to help decrease fears and anxiety in a safe environment.
• TES – The Eulenspiegel Society
• NYC Ageplayers munch – hosted by Laine
• Just a few of the many ageplay-focused or -friendly events/groups out there: Nelicon, CAPCon, New Jersey Littles, TES Fest, The Floating World, Black Rose, Frolicon, Camp Crucible, Madtown KinkFest, Debauchery
• SCONY – Spanking Club of New York. More info about SCONY in our Spanking Show (episode 11).
• FetFest Ageplay Village  - A special Village at FetFest just for age players! Click here to register for FetFest through the Ageplay Village. There’s a little more info here, too!
• What’s in the Munch Box – a nifty short video by Spacey explaining some of the things that he brings to the Atlanta Littles Munch

Big Little Podcast Episode 21

We’ve been talking about it for 20 episodes and now it’s finally here. Eleven guests make this the largest panel yet. It’s also the longest episode we’ve done.

Get yourself a big, big beverage, get padded up, and take a listen.

A full transcription of this episode is available.

Show Notes

Show notes coming soon.

Big Little Podcast Episode 20

Members of two age playing poly families talk about polyamory, sharing their experiences and explaining how age play plays a part. This is also our first show with a live, chat-room audience.

Show Notes

• Polyamory: poly=many, amory=love, many loves. As described by our guests, ethical non-monogamy.
• OKCupid: an online dating/friendship profile site
• Minx’s Polyamory Weekly podcast – A long-running polyamory focused, kink-friendly podcast
• Polyamory & google calendar – info on sharing google calendars
• Frubble (silly word for compersion): happiness that you feel about your partner being happy about something that has nothing to do with you
• Wibble: antonym of frubble, a jealousy feeling about your partner’s happiness with someone else
• Poly Living – Micah’s Fearless Press column about polyamory where you can find the column mentioned, ‘Living a “Normal” Life‘
• Metamour – the partner of your partner, a “love(r)-in-law”
• Vee – a poly group with three partners, where the center person, or the “pivot,” has two partners who aren’t partners of each other
• Triad (triangle) – a poly group with three partners, who each have a relationship with the other two
• Franklin Veaux’s Glossary of Polyamory Terms – An extensive glossary of terms used in talking about polyamory (some are also used in swinging and BDSM). His site also contains an excellent Polyamory FAQ and other educational articles.
• Power Exchange Books Resource Series: Age Play – a collection of article by age players on a range of topics, featuring an article by Spacey titled ”Gourmet Age Play”, about how age play can combine with a variety of kinks as an intensifier. You can read it on Fetlife, too.
• HeyTell app : voice text messages application (walk-talkie or push-to-talk style)
• The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy – a book about ethical non-monogamy, relationships and sex. Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy are also the authors of a few other kink/BDSM nonfiction books, such as The New Bottoming Book and The New Topping Book.
• Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino – a book featuring interviews with people in many different relationship styles, practical advice and tips.
• The Crucible – BDSM/Kink club in Washington, DC

Big Little Podcast Episode 19

Join us as we talk to:

• Arial – An age player and mother of 5.
• Micah, Amy, and Ian – Age players and members of a poly family that are parents to one.
• mako – Your usual host and step father.
• spacey and Lady Mae – Parents to a cat and a newly adopted, very rambunctious dog.

We ask all kinds of questions about how parenting changed your relationship to age play and how to find the balance between your age play life and parenting life.

Show Notes

Show notes coming soon.

Big Little Podcast Episode 18

Our special guest is Mae as she opens up about her experiences being an age player and a person with Asperger’s Syndrome.

Show Notes

Show notes coming soon.

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 6/15/2011

Show Notes:

Upcoming Munches:

Wednesday, June 15^th

• San Francisco Littles Munch – San Francisco, CA

Saturday, June 18^th

• Atlanta Littles Munch – Atlanta, GA
• Austin Littles Munch – Austin, TX
• Indiana Hoosier Highchair – Bloomington, IN

Sunday, June 19^th

• Boston Littles Munch – Cambridge, MA

Saturday, June 25th

• Madison Littles Munch – Madison, WI
• North Carolina Littles Munch – Greensboro, NC

Find out about all of these munches by visiting http://LittlesMunch.com

Other events for littles:

• Whispering Oaks Camp Littles Pool Party – Deatsville, AL Saturday, July 16^th
• The Floating World kink convention will be hosting a number of age play activities – Edison, NJ, July 29^th through the 31^st. http://thefloatingworld.org/web/

Big Little Podcast Episode 17

Join Andrea, Kacie, Liz, Mae, and your hosts spacey and mako as we talk about our experience with therapy, talking to therapists about age play, and so much more.

Show Notes

• Regression in Service of the Ego:  
  any act that you do purely for enjoyment and that is restorative to your psyche. (as defined by our show guest)

• “Women have no emotional feelings during orgasm, say neuroscientists” (Mega Neuroscience article)

• “The Orgasmic Mind: The Neurological Roots of Sexual Pleasure” (Original article in Scientific American, May 2008 – subscription required to view full article)

• National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: an advocacy and educational organization that is dedicated to advancing the rights and freedoms of adults to engage in any kind of consenting sexual behavior, including BDSM, swinging, and polyamory

• Kink Aware Professionals: An NCSF-maintained directory featuring listings for therapists, doctors, lawyers and other professionals that are kink-aware or -knowledgeable
• Patrick Califia – an author, MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist), and transman
• DSM-IV (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders):  Contains information, statistics and classification of/about mental disorders.  One of NCSF’s projects is to improve how fetishes and paraphilias are recognized in the DSM.
• The Survivor’s Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse by Staci Haines
• Scarleteen – Sex Education for the Real World - sex- and body-positive, responsible information and education about sex & relationships. The site is geared toward adolescents but has wonderful info and plenty to learn for folks of all ages.
• Emotional management (psychology term)

And the Therapist Name/Resource Throwdown!

Big Little Podcast Episode 16

On this episode spacey, mako, and Lady Mae are joined by a couple age play clothing makers. They’ll share how they got started, what keeps them going, and what it’s like to sell products and run a business geared towards age players. Along the way we also get a pretty awesome recap of the Littles Pageant that took place at CAPcon this year. And, of course, there’s lots, lots more.

Show Notes

• Never Grown Up – Benny’s ageplay clothing store
• Romper: a one-piece outfit that includes a shirt and shorts.
• Onesie: Similar to a romper, but instead of shorts it only covers the rear/crotch areas. Also called a bodysuit.
• Footie pajamas/Sleeper: a one-piece outfit for sleep/lounging that has long legs and sleeves, and often built-in socks.
• Mako’s Appa shirt – The decoration was cut out of a toddler size shirt, then fused onto a contrasting color adult size t-shirt.
• Littles & Baby Pride Pin – the symbol for ageplayers of all kinds! You can download the free art kit or buy a pin.
• CAPCon – the Chicago Age Players Convention that took place April 1-3, 2011. (Free FetLife.com account required to access this page).
• Ropecast - A Rope bondage/BDSM podcast
• Seam ripper: a tool for picking stitches out of fabric, for removing pockets or taking apart garments at the seams.
• Twisted Tryst – a BDSM/kink camping event in Wisconsin and Indiana that is very ageplay friendly
• Camp Crucible – a similar event near Washington DC
• Wazoodle – an online fabric store, specializing in fabrics to make diapers with, including Zorb
• PUL (Polyurethane Laminate): a fabric with one plastic-like side to make it waterproof, used in manufacture of some diapers.
• Abena Deltaform and Abena Abriform: two models of adult diapers. Abriforms feature a waistband and Deltaforms do not.
• XP Medical – an online store featuring carrying various brands and types of adult diapers

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 6/3/2011

Show Notes:

Upcoming Munches:

Monday, June 6^th

• Boston Littles Munch – Cambridge, MA
• LittleSpace Sacramento – Sacramento, CA

Saturday, June 11^th

• DC Littles Munch – Bethesda, MD
• Ohio Age Play Munch – Columbus, OH

Wednesday, June 15^th

• San Francisco Littles Munch – San Francisco, CA

Saturday, June 18^th

• Atlanta Littles Munch – Atlanta, GA
• Austin Littles Munch – Austin, TX
• Indiana Hoosier Highchair – Bloomington, IN

Sunday, June 19^th

• Boston Littles Munch – Cambridge, MA

Find out about all of these munches by visiting http://LittlesMunch.com

Other events for littles:

• Whispering Oaks Camp Littles Pool Party – Deatsville, AL Saturday, July 16^th
• The Floating World kink convention will be hosting a number of age play activities – Edison, NJ, July 29^th through the 31^st.

Big Little Podcast Episode 15 (Part 1 of 2)

Mako and I get to chat with another of our podcasting heros, Raven Lightholm from the Freedom of Fetish Podcast. She comes loaded with a bunch of questions about age play. So many questions, in fact, that we decided to split the show up between this one and Freedom of Fetish. Part 2 can be heard as Episode 31 of her podcast here.

Transcription: Parts 1 and 2 available here. Transcribed by Valentalae.

Show Notes

• Aunt Donna who you may remember from Episode 12 called in.  We love you, Aunt Donna!
• Our guest Raven Lightholme of the Freedom of Fetish Podcast also interviewed us.  Listen to the 2nd part of the interview on FoF’s Episode 31.
• Fetish Flamewas an amazing podcast by Nova and Atticus.
• We love the Masocast. Mako was on it back in May, 2011.  You can hear that episode here.
• Frubbleis a silly sounding word for the feeling of compersion.
• Gloria Brame, therapist, author, and Mako’s personal hero was on the podcast back in Episode 4.
• Littlesmunch.com lists munches for ageplayers all over the United States, and soon will even have one in Germany!

Un-Warning: This segment DOES NOT contain explicit sexual content.

Spacey: Frankly, this sweet little story  by my brother, mako, is one of my favorites so far. I’m really excited to get this into the feed and share it with you.

Enjoy.

A Little Something Sweet 2 – Hold My Calls

Help us fight and cure blood cancers! (And maybe win a little something nice for yourself.)

Big Little Podcast Episode 14

Our biggest panel of show guests yet! We talked to female-identified age players from across a wide range of interests and locations to get a sense of what it’s like to be an age player from the girly point of view. Join Aunt Lemon, Lissie, Psyche, Thymine, Maya, and Laurel as they share their perspectives in this super-fun show.

Show Notes

• SouthEast Leather Fest – An Atlanta, Georgia fetish, kinky, BDSM, M/s, D/s event which mixes all sorts of communities.
• Second Life – A 3-D massively multiplayer online roleplaying “game”.
• Xeromag.com – Polyamory? – What like two girlfriends? A great site with information about being polyamorous
• Lolita Fashion.org – A place for brolitas to get clothing!
• Angelica’s Ice Cream Dress – A pic of Spacey’s alternate self, at Frolicon (Fetlife account required)

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 5/18/2011

Show Notes:

Upcoming Munches:

Wednesday, May 18th

• San Francisco Littles Munch – San Francisco, CA

Saturday, May 21st

• Atlanta Littles Munch (Munch and Play Party) – Atlanta, GA
• Austin Littles Munch (Also having a party) – Austin, TX
• Indiana Hoosier Highchair – Bloomington, IN
• Madison Littles Munch – Madison, WI

Saturday, May 28th

• North Carolina Littles Munch – Greensboro, NC

Find out about all of these munches by visiting http://LittlesMunch.com

Other events for littles:

• Also, Mommy Fiercest is organizing a Mommy/little discussion panel at DOMcon LA. Event information can be found on the DOMcon LA web site. (domconla.com) – Saturday, May 22nd
• Whispering Oaks Camp will be featuring a Littles Pool Party in Deatsville, AL on Saturday, July 16th

Meet your hosts:

• Mako will be at Camp Crucible  Kidz Kamp! – May 28th – June 5th (campcrucible.com)

Big Little Podcast Episode 13

Our friend Ella, who was featured on the TV program The Secret Lives of Women, joins us again. We talk about some recent coverage and depictions on age play on TV, the radio, and even in the news. Ella gives us a deeper look at how her show segment was made and we share some recommendations for folks who find themselves in the eye of the media.

Show Notes

• National Geographic Taboo – This segment about adult babies features Stanley from California and his auntie, Sandra.  We found it to be rather negative, for many reasons.  Thanks to the very awesome Rilo Kilo for hosting this clip on her blog.
• The Secret Lives of Women – Our friend Baby Ella was on this segment about adult babies on The Secret Lives of Women.  It’s a much more positive portrayal.
• Sin City on Adult Babies – This is a clip from a european show on adult babies.  It’s surprisingly positive.
• Nanny Lynnette’s Adult Baby Birthday Party – This very positive segment from HBO’s Real Sex shows ageplayers in a lighthearted, respectful way.  It also ties ageplay and AB/DL to power exchange and BDSM.
• 1,000 Ways to Die: Crib Your Enthusiasm – From a popular sensationalist show on Spike TV. WARNING: This very negative segment is spiteful and highly triggering. Proceed with caution.
• CSI’s “King Baby” Episode – Full episode, hosted by Lildobe, about a murdered casino boss who was an adult baby.
• It Gets Better – Dan Savage’s amazingly great project shows recorded video messages of support to struggling LGBT youth.  It’s a response to teen suicides caused by intolerance, showing that life for alternative folks does get better.
• Frolicon – An awesome kinky/sci-fi/geeky event in Atlanta, Georgia.
• NCSF Media Tips – The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom’s tips on how to interview on fetish issues
• Second Life – a 3D virtual community where ageplay has been controversial and provoked some scandals.
• “People who don’t understand AB/DL” – a fetlife thread about a recent Cracked.com “article” on adult babies.

It’s not an experiment anymore, it’s A Little Something Naughty. It’s naughty because these feature a narrator reading a piece of age play erotica. It’s important to note that there is sexual content ahead and those triggered or offended by such things should skip these segments. We will still be doing plenty of our regular shows and events updates.

Today’s story is dirty. It’s not just dirty, it’s REALLY dirty and ever so much fun. Enjoy A Gold Star for Effort by Mako Allen.

A Little Something Naughty 3 – A Gold Star for Effort

In this episode our guest is Valentalae. She shares her stories about being a age player and a blind person. She also has a group on FetLife about age play and disabilities called Age Play with a Difference.

This show also contains one of the funniest true-life diaper buying stories your hosts have heard yet.

Big Little Podcast Episode 12

Transcription: Available here. Transcribed by Staub.

Show Notes

• Wikipedia’s Big List of Paraphilias – this is where Valentalae first heard of infantilism.
• Having your ear against someone’s crotch – it’s a fetish, really.
• Age Play with a Difference – Valentalae runs this FetLife group for all kinds of age players with a difference.  Your hosts are members there, too.
• Signing Without Sight – Valentalae shares an FAQ on FetLife about how she learns and uses sign language.
• Magic Medical – Where Valentalae buys her diapers.
• ABAIP – Short for A Better Absorbent Incontinence Product – another site to buy diapers from.
• Webvisum – a browser add-on to solve those pesky CAPTCHAs.
• Solona – human-powered CAPTCHA solution.
• Black Rose – a Washington, DC based BDSM education group, with lots of good educational and outreach resources.
• Avenue Q – A musical that’s sort of Sessame Street for grownups.

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 5/4/2011

Show Notes:

Upcoming Munches:

Saturday, May 14th

• DC Littles Munch – Bethesda, MD
• Mobile Littles Munch – Mobile, AL

Sunday, May 15th

• Albany Littles Munch – Albany, NY
• Boston Littles Munch – Cambridge, MA
• NEW – Ohio Age Play Munch – Springdale, OH

Wednesday, May 18th

• San Francisco Littles Munch – San Francisco, CA

Saturday, May 21st

• Atlanta Littles Munch (Munch and Play Party) – Atlanta, GA
• Austin Littles Munch – Austin, TX
• Indiana Hoosier Highchair – Bloomington, IN

Other new munches coming soon:

• Central Illinois
• Germany

Find out about all of these munches by visiting http://LittlesMunch.com

Meet your hosts:

• Camp Crucible  Kidz Kamp! – May 28th – June 5th (campcrucible.com)

Also, Mommy Fiercest is organizing a Mommy/little discussion panel at DOMcon LA. We don’t have the details of this panel yet, but event information can be found on the DOMcon LA web site. (domconla.com)

If you have a FetLife account, you can read an excellent recount of the NELIcon age play con.

Big Little Podcast Episode 11

In this episode our guest Missy talks to us about her experiences with spanking and age play. Then she walks us through the basics of getting stated. Missy is one of mako’s mommies and an experienced “spanko.”

Show Notes

• Shadow Lane – Shadow Lane is a company that produces spanking videos and magazines, and hosts spanking conventions.
• Crimson Moon – Based in Chicago, Crimson Moon hosts spanking parties, sells toys and videos, and has spanking personals.
• DC Spanking – DC Spanking’s fetlife group.  They’re a Washington, DC group that hosts spanking parties, and connects people.  Wonderful, kind, giving, loving people.
• SCONY – The Spanking Club of New York.  New York’s only exclusively OTK spanking group since 1997.

We’re  experimenting again. This time Mako has written and reads a nice story. It’s about a girl, her daddy, and surprise.

Enjoy.

A Little Something Sweet 1 – Yes Daddy

Big Little Podcast Episode 10

In this episode it’s back to your hosts. We talk about the state of the show, answer some listener questions, talk about upcoming show topics, and review Penny Barber’s new book: The Age Play and Diaper Fetish Handbook.

Show Notes:

• BBIF – Short for Big Babies, Infantilists & Friends – the BBIF is the oldest internet mailing list/resource for adult babies and ageplayers still available today.
• Our Fetlife Group – It’s called “The Big Little Podcast”.  You’ll need a fetlife account to get to it.  Luckily, they’re free!
• Little Girl Lost’s Ageplay Negotiation Form – Courtesy of the wonderful Wayback Machine, which has preserved this valuable resource.

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 4/20/2011

Show Notes:

Upcoming Munches:

Wed, April 20th

• San Francisco Littles Munch  - San Francisco, CA

Saturday, April 23rd

• North Carolina Littles Munch – Greensboro, NC
• Madison, Wisconsin Littles Munch — Madison, WI

Wed April 27th

• Pioneer Valley  — Northampton, Massachusetts

Monday,  May 2nd

• Boston Munch – Cambridge, MA
• Little Space Sacramento – Roseville, CA

Find out about all of these munches by visiting http://LittlesMunch.com

Meet your hosts:

• Frolicon – in Atlanta – this weekend, April 21-24th (Frolicon.net)
• Camp Crucible  Kidz Kamp! – May 28th – June 5th (campcrucible.com)

Also, in Minneapolis, MN, Benny will be hosting an age play class in a venue called The Smitten Kitten. The only information about it appears to be posted to FetLife at the moment. You can get that info here: http://fetlife.com/events/49780

Big Little Podcast Episode 9

Self esteem seems like something people are born with. Most often, however, it’s a skill learned through determination and practice. In this episode our guest Andrea, Ella, and Lady Mae, join us for a discussion about the importance of self esteem, strategies for improving it, and using it to come out to the people that matter.

Show Notes:

• Camp Crucible – BDSM Oriented camp/vacation experience with age play events and a large contingent of age players.
• War of Art – A book by StevenPressfied. It talks about “The Resistance” and the importance of doing what you feel fear about.
• Power Exchange Books Resource Series: Age Play – A collection of article by age players and a range of topics. Referenced in the show because spacey contributed an article about how age play can combine with a variety of kinks.
• Secret Lives of Women segment (YouTube video) – This segment aired on the WE tv network’s show, The Secret Lives of Women. Our guest, Baby Ella agreed to appear. In doing show, she helped a lot of other age players learn they were not alone.
• Erotic Awakening Episode 107 – Lee Harrington discusses some of his experiences with age play. He also talks about understanding how many people’s reactions are based on projection of themselves on us. It’s an excellent show.
• The Four Agreements – A book by Don Miguel Ruiz. Referenced by andrea, it goes deeper into concepts of compassion and projection.
• Ella’s Playspace – Little Ella’s most excellent blog.

A portion of sales using the Amazon.com links on this page will help to support the podcast.

The experiment continues in the segment we call A Little Something Naughty. It’s naughty because these feature a narrator reading a piece of age play erotica. It’s important to note that there is sexual content ahead and those triggered or offended by such things should skip these segments. We will still be doing plenty of our regular shows and events updates.

Today’s erotica is Held, by Mako Allen and features a Daddy/boy scenario.

A Little Something Naughty 2 – Held

Big Little Podcast Episode 8

Bratting can be a sensitive topic, but also a lot of fun for many age players. Fortunately we were able to get a master of the art, scotty, to teach us how to do it well. (And not alienate people in the process.)

Transcription: Available here. Transcribed by Staub.

Show Notes:

• Spankers of the SouthEast is an Atlanta area group for spanking enthusiasts. Scotty, our guest, is a co-host along with boi ty.
• 1763 is an Atlanta BDSM dungeon / play space. Scotty host a regular men’s spanking party.

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 4/6/2011

Show Notes:

Saturday, April 9^th

• The DC Littles Munch in Bethesda, MD (I’ll be visiting)
• Mobile Littles Munch in Mobile, AL

Sunday, April 10^th

• Albany Littles Munch in Albany NY

Saturday, April 16^th

• Atlanta Littles Munch in Atlanta, GA (field trip to Piedmont Park. Party May 21^st)
• Austin Littles Munch and Party in Austin, TX
• Boston Littles Munch is skipping their regular munch this month and having a party. Details on their FetLife group or contact angeltigriss@yahoo.com
• Indiana Hoosier Highchair in Bloomington, IN

Wednesday, April 20^th

• San Francisco Littles Munch in San Francisco, CA

Also announced were the following reminders:

• NELIcon — which stands for North East Littles Invasion — is taking place April 15th – 17th. They have gobs of information in two places. On LittlesMunch.com here: http://www.littlesmunch.com/content/njlittlesmunch/north-east-littles-invasion-convention-2011-neli-con-11/ and on FetLife here: http://fetlife.com/events/37582
• Frolicon – In Atlanta, GA. It’s not an age play event, per se. But it is age play inclusive and there are going to be special events set aside just for us. I’ve been attending for years and it’s absolutely amazing. It’s April 21st through the 24th and you can get the details at Frolicon.net. spacey will be attending this one.
• Camp Crucible – Near Washington, DC. This is a BDSM oriented camping experience. But calling it that simply doesn’t do it justice. It’s really an amazing time to be free to be who you are on the inside. Every year the age players get together and most get a cabin or two together. There are also special events just for age players called Kidz Kamp. Learn more athttp://CampCrucible.com. This year mako will be attending

Other places to meet the hosts

• DC Littles Munch – Saturday, April 9th in Bethesda, MD. spacey and mako will be attending together as spacey is visiting that weekend from Atlanta.

The next episode of the Big Little Podcast should be coming on Sunday, April  10th and is about bratting. Our special guest will be Scotty, a masterful little brat.

Big Little Podcast Episode 7

Our special guest for this show is Cargo Weasel. He tells us all about the cute and fuzzy world of fur fandom and littlefurs/babyfurs.

Show Notes:

• Ft. Awesome at Camp Crucible: 

More show notes coming soon.

We’re trying an experiment here. Normally on Wednesdays we’ve been posting about upcoming events and that kind of thing. This time we wanted to put something extra and fun into the feed.

We’re calling this new segment A Little Something Naughty. It’s naughty because these will feature a narrator reading a piece of age play erotica. It’s important to note that there is sexual content ahead and those triggered or offended by such things should skip these segments. We will still be doing plenty of our regular shows and events updates.

Today’s erotica is Emily on the Elevator, by Mako Allen.

A Little Something Naughty 1 – Emily on the Elevator

Big Little Podcast Episode 6

We had two special guests for this show:

• Ms. Jessica – Is a dominant, parent, and had experience as a Mommy to several age players.
• Mae or DarklingMae is Mommy to spacey and long time BDSM and age player.

Transcription: Available here. Transcribed by PandaPet.

Show Notes:

• Middle – (n.)  An ageplayer who doesn’t identify as a little or a big, but rather something in between. Example ages could be 8-16 or older and some roles might be big sister/big brother, tween, teen, babysitter, middle/high school student.
• That hideously wonderful joke:
  What are the two sexiest animals in the barnyard?
  Brown chicken, brown cow!

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 3/23/2011

Show Notes:

Today, Wednesday, March 23rd

• Pioneer Valley Littles Munch in Northhampton, Mass

Saturday, March 26th

• Madison Littles Munch in Madison, WI
• North Carolina Littles Munch in Greensboro Greenville, NC

Sunday, March 27th

• New Jersey Littles Munch (Central / South munch) in Franklin Mills, PA

Monday, April 4th

• Boston Littles Munch in Cambridge, Mass
• LittleSpace Sacramento in Roseville, CA

Also announced were the following reminders:

• CAPcon, an upcoming age play convention taking place in Chicago this April 1st – 3rd. You can get more details and register at http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/143468.
• NELIcon — which stands for North East Littles Invasion — is taking place April 15th – 17th. They have gobs of information in two places. On LittlesMunch.com here: http://www.littlesmunch.com/content/njlittlesmunch/north-east-littles-invasion-convention-2011-neli-con-11/ and on FetLife here: http://fetlife.com/events/37582
• There’s a kite flying event being put on by the Phoenix Romper House in Phoenix, Az. http://fetlife.com/events/44799 for details. (FetLife account required)
• Frolicon – In Atlanta, GA. It’s not an age play event, per se. But it is age play inclusive and there are going to be special events set aside just for us. I’ve been attending for years and it’s absolutely amazing. It’s April 21st through the 24th and you can get the details at Frolicon.net. spacey will be attending this one.
• Camp Crucible – Near Washington, DC. This is a BDSM oriented camping experience. But calling it that simply doesn’t do it justice. It’s really an amazing time to be free to be who you are on the inside. Every year the age players get together and most get a cabin or two together. There are also special events just for age players called Kidz Kamp. Learn more at http://CampCrucible.com. This year mako will be attending

Other places to meet the hosts

• Atlanta Poly Weekend – In Atlanta on March 25th – 27th. spacey will be attending.
• MomentumCon – In Washington, DC on April 1st – 3rd. mako will be attending
• DC Littles Munch – Saturday, April 9th in Bethesda, MD. spacey and mako will be attending together as spacey is visiting that weekend from Atlanta.

The next episode of the Big Little Podcast should be coming on Sunday, March 27th and is about female dominance in age play. We’ll have two special guests.

Big Little Podcast Episode 5

Our special guest for this show isFavorite, the web master for iDiaper.me. On this episode he talks about the mission of his site and managing a long distance age play relationship.

Transcription: Available here. Transcribed by Valentalae.

Show Notes:

• Favorite’s web site is iDiaper.me
• You can find it on twitter as @iDiaperMe
• He’s also starting a book group about Gloria Brame’s Different Loving on FetLife. (You need a free FetLife membership to see this.)

Big Little Podcast Episode 4

Our special guest for this show is Dr. Gloria Brame. She’s a noted author, sex therapist, and age player.

Show Notes:

Dr. Brame has written and published two books about BDSM:

• Different Loving – This is a journalistic work about about a broad range of human sexual interests and relationship types. There is a chapter on age play and it’s one of the first books I read that presented a serious treatment on the topic. (Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission)
• Come Hither – This is more of an introduction and how-to guide for approaching the world of BDSM. (Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex)

In the program she also mentions that she’s working on a new book called “The Truth About Sex.”

Gloria’s main web site is: http://gloria-brame.com/ There you can find more info about her, her books, and her therapy practice.

The links to the books above are amazon.com affiliate links. If you purchase through them, you are helping to support The Big Little Podcast. Thank you!

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 3/09/2011

Show Notes:

Saturday, March 12th

• DC Littles Munch – Bethesda, MD
• Mobile Littles Munch – Mobile, AL
• LittleSpace Sacramento – Rossville, CA
• North Carolina Littles Munch Raleigh Edition – Raleigh, NC

Sunday, March 13th

• Albany Littles Munch – Albany, NY

Wednesday, March 16th

• San Francisco Littles Munch – San Fran, CA

Saturday, March 19th

• Atlanta Littles Munch – Atlanta, GA
• Indiana Hoosier Highchair – Bloomington, IN

Sunday, March 20th

• Boston Littles Munch – Cambridge, Mass

Wednesday, March 23rd

• Pioneer Valley Littles Munch – Northhampton, Mass

All the information for these munches can be found on LittlesMunch.com.

Also announced were the following reminders:

• CAPcon, an upcoming age play convention taking place in Chicago this April 1st – 3rd. You can get more details and register at http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/143468.
• NELIcon — which stands for North East Littles Invasion — is taking place April 15th – 17th. They have gobs of information in two places. On LittlesMunch.com here: http://www.littlesmunch.com/content/njlittlesmunch/north-east-littles-invasion-convention-2011-neli-con-11/ and on FetLife here: http://fetlife.com/events/37582
• There’s a kite flying event being put on by the Phoenix Romper House in Phoenix, Az. http://fetlife.com/events/44799 for details. (FetLife account required)

I also talked about an event in Atlanta called Frolicon. It’s not an age play event, per se. But it is age play inclusive and there are going to be special events set aside just for us. I’ve been attending for years and it’s absolutely amazing. It’s April 21st through the 24th and you can get the details at Frolicon.net.

The next episode of the Big Little Podcast should be coming on Sunday, March 13th. However, I was sick last weekend and haven’t finished all the production work, so no promises.

Big Little Podcast Episode 3

Transcription: Available here. Transcribed by Valentalae.

Show Notes:

Thanks to our special guest, peanut.

Other show notes coming soon.

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 3/02/2011

Show Notes:

Munches on Monday, March 7th

• Boston Munch – Cambridge, Mass
• LittlesSpace Sacramento – Rossville, CA

Saturday, March 12th

• DC Littles Munch – Bethesda, MD
• Mobile Littles Munch – Mobile, AL

Wednesday, March 16th

• San Francisco Littles Munch – San Fran, CA

All the information for these munches can be found on LittlesMunch.com.

Also announced was CAPcon, an upcoming age play convention taking place in Chicago this April 1st – 3rd. You can get more details and register at http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/143468.

NELIcon — which stands for North East Littles Invasion — is taking place April 15th – 17th. They have gobs of information in two places. On LittlesMunch.com here: http://www.littlesmunch.com/content/njlittlesmunch/north-east-littles-invasion-convention-2011-neli-con-11/ and on FetLife here: http://fetlife.com/events/37582

There’s a kite flying event being put on by the Phoenix Romper House in Phoenix, Az. http://fetlife.com/events/44799 for details. (FetLife account required)

The next episode of the Big Little Podcast is coming on Sunday, March 6th.

Big Little Podcast Episode 2

Transcription: Available here. Transcribed by Staub

Show Notes:

In the show we mention an age play negotiation form created by Vamp / little girl lost. Unfortunately the original web site is gone. Thanks to archive engines such as the archive.org Wayback machine we can still enjoy the content, even if some of the formatting is lost. Age Play Negotiation Form

Big Little Podcast Events Update for 2/22/2011

Show Notes:

There are three Littles Munches taking place this Saturday, February 26th

• Madison Littles Munch (Madison, Wi)
• NC Littles Munch(Greensboro, NC)
• NJ Littles Munch (North munch, in Fair Lawn, NJ)

Also announced was CAPcon, an upcoming age play convention taking place in Chicago this April 1st – 3rd. You can get more details and register at http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/143468.

The next episode of the Big Little Podcast is coming on Monday, Feb 28th. It’s about rules, limits, and negotiation in age play.

Episode 1 – Attending and hosting an age play munch.

Big Little Podcast Episode 1